I probably had made one of the worst choices that I could have when it came to choosing a partner. Over all the years we've been together it has come to light that he is bipolar and associated with that is some type of hypochondriac mindset if it's not a legitimate chronic pain (or just plain laziness). I'm not sure what it is but O M G, this guy never stops complaining that he's in pain of some or any sort. Since he lost his job it has gotten to the point that he can't do anything at all (which is what makes me think it's mind/stress related)! He hasn't been to a doctor to be thoroughly checked over so I have no idea what the actual problem is but the last time he was checked out there was nothing wrong with him. Because he hasn't been diagnosed with anything yet he has no income at all and doesn't qualify for state disability insurance because he hasn't worked in a long time. If there is something really wrong I'm hoping that we can go through a company like Allsup since they have a great track record with people applying for social security disability (we all know what that process can be like). That would help tremendously with all the bureaucratic run around that you end up dealing with.
Regardless of his situation, I'm fed up. I'm the one that has to work but can't take care of the baby and him and me and our son and work at the same time! DUH! UGH. It's such a frustrating thing. I wonder how many other women find themselves in a position like I'm in?
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